We all have friends of the opposite sex. I have many that were childhood friends, friends of the family and acquaintances I know from work, church or from my comings and goings. The close opposite sex friends do talk from time to time and we often ask each other questions about what is going on in our lives. The big question: should you ask about love relationship advice ever from them?
There are three camps on this subject, but before we delve into them, let's talk about the psychology of love. This is something to be mindful of when asking girls and guys advice as there is a thin line between friendships and romance. If you intend to keep a woman as a friend be sure to draw the lines early and often and reemphasize your primary relationship and your dedication to it so there will be no mistake.
? Girls and guys advice will be limited to that friend's experience. A friend who is the life of the party will definitely give different advice than a person who is shy and reserved, so consider your source carefully.
? They may have a secret crush on you. This is not always a bad thing, especially if you are not in a committed relationship and sometimes opposite sex friends turn into love relationships. The opposite can be true if you are in a committed relationship and time spent with these type of "friends" can wind up causing you to question your relationship with your lover. If that is the case, do not allow these to tear down what you have built over time and examine facts rather than feelings when it comes to love relationships.
? Advice from a older friend or a deeply platonic relationship. Often the most honest and truthful advice you can get. If you are in a committed relationship and have to ask someone a question, these are the people you should ask (Sexual questions are a different sort of course).
Girls and guys advice from peers friends can also be interesting. A friend's wife gave me an interesting insight on what I should do on my 5th anniversary and it was great advice about doing something special with my gift presentation.
Opposite sex friends advice can be a good source of info on improving your romantic relationships but remember it is just that - advice. Depend on your own mind to make decisions about love and communicate often with those you love to make these relationships better.
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